About Mediation

Special Education Mediation is a voluntary and confidential dispute resolution process available at no cost through the BSEA. When school personnel and parents disagree about the educational needs of a student with disabilities, either party may request mediation.

In mediation, an impartial mediator helps parents and school staff clarify the issues and underlying concerns, explore interests, discuss options and collaborate to reach mutually satisfying agreements that address the needs of the student. The mediator does not decide how to resolve the dispute. When the parties resolve all or some of the issues, they work together with the mediator to put their agreement(s) in writing.

This informal, collaborative problem-solving process encourages mutual respect, promotes communication and often provides the basis for positive working relationships between parents and school staff.

For more information about mediation or to receive the name and telephone number of the mediator assigned to your region, contact the BSEA Coordinator of Mediation at (781) 338-6443

The Mediation Process

The mediation session is a meeting that is held between parents and educators who may differ in their views on what services, programs, placement, etc. should be provided a particular student. The mediator guides the process but does not decide the outcome. The mediation takes place in the student's school district as soon as a mutually convenient date and time can be scheduled. A mediation session may last from 2 hours to a day. Occasionally, multiple sessions are needed, as agreed to by the parties. The mediation session is comprised of several distinct stages:

Stage I: Preliminary Stage

As participants arrive, the mediator typically introduces him/herself and sometimes indicates where the participants are to sit. Once everyone is seated, the mediator asks all participants to introduce themselves by name and their connection to the student.

The mediator strives to establish a climate conducive to joint decision making. The mediator reviews the purpose of mediation and the procedures that will be utilized during the session. This review typically includes:

  • Brief discussion of the Agreement to Mediate Form, ground rules and the confidentiality requirements for mediation;
  • An explanation of the mediator's role, which includes listening, questioning, and facilitating discussions aimed at reaching viable alternatives, agreements, and solutions; and
  • A statement indicating while information from the past is frequently helpful, the focus of the discussion should be on the current and future needs in order to resolve the dispute.
  • In addition, the mediator explains the use of recess and caucus during the mediation process.

A recess allows participants a chance to consider what has occurred and what solutions might be agreeable to them and offers a break in the proceedings.

A caucus refers to a private meeting between the mediator and each of the parties. During these private sessions the mediator has a chance to talk to each party alone. It can be helpful to further determine the issues and positions of the parties and what alternatives might be considered to the proposed plan. Parties may want to share confidential information with the mediator. The information shared during the private session is not revealed to the other party unless the mediator is given permission to do so.

Stage II: Discussion

The mediator will give the parties the opportunity to present their concerns During the discussion period, the mediator will:

  • Assist the parties in participating equally in the discussion;
  • Clarify and summarize statements that may be misinterpreted or not understood;
  • Provide periodic summaries of the discussion;
  • Call a recess or caucus when appropriate;
  • Assist in exploring alternatives; and
  • Encourage full, active participation of the parties.

Stage III: Closure

If the parties have come to an agreement, the mediator, working with the parties, verbally summarizes the agreement and puts the agreement in writing.

The agreement may:

  • Indicate who will be responsible for implementation;
  • Specify the time frames for implementation; and
  • Indicate what action is expected of each individual.
  • The parties then finalize the agreement by signing it. Copies are provided for all parties.

If the parties are not able to reach an agreement, the mediator will discuss other options.

Preparing for Mediation

Before you attend mediation, it may be helpful to:

  • Make an outline of your viewpoint of the dispute: What's involved? What are you in disagreement about?
  • Decide what you want for the student and what you would be willing to propose.
  • List the solutions you would be willing to offer to settle the dispute. You may want to list the most important one first, next important second, and so on.
  • Check out your viewpoint and ideas. Ask others (colleagues, friends, relatives) to react and comment on your position, what you are seeking, proposed solutions, etc.
  • While it is not required, if you decide you need someone to assist you (attorney, advocate, consultant, etc.), seek an advisor who will represent your interests.
  • Think about both short and long-term solutions.
  • Negotiate with the attitude that, in developing an agreement, it is frequently advisable to start with a plan that might work (even though not your first choice) and then later build on it or modify it as needed, rather than maintain a single solution that is unacceptable to the other party.
  • Recognize that mediation requires the give-and-take of ideas and offers, before solutions are agreed to and an agreement reached. Therefore, mediation can be a very creative, spontaneous and dynamic process for the participants.
  • Remember to keep the focus on the student's needs.
  • Be prepared to explain to the mediator (and opposing party) what issues you'd like to address during the mediation session.

How is mediation different from a hearing?

There are several significant differences:

  • Mediation is voluntary; participation in a hearing is mandatory;
  • Mediation is more informal than a hearing;
  • Mediation usually takes several hours; a hearing can take from one to three days, or more;
  • Mediation does not usually involve lawyers (although you have the right to have one with you, if you choose); and
  • Mediation allows the parties to create their own agreement with the help of a mediator rather than have a decision rendered by a hearing officer.

Why consider mediation?

Mediation offers an informal, collaborative and effective way for parents and educators to resolve their differences. Mediation has many benefits for parents, educators and service providers, including:

  • Families can maintain an ongoing and positive relationship with the school system and benefit from collaborating with educators or service providers in developing their child's program.
  • Conflicts that arise out of misunderstandings or lack of shared information can be resolved through mediation with mediators helping parents, educators and service providers to communicate directly with one another.
  • Special education issues are complex and can best be solved by working together.
  • Mediation tends to be faster and is free or far less costly than due process hearings and/or court proceedings.
  • Mediation results in agreements that participants find satisfactory and research shows that people tend to follow the terms of their mediated agreements.

What issues can be mediated?

Parents and educators involved in the mediation decide together what issues they want to resolve in mediation. Usually the issues discussed relate to the child's evaluation, eligibility, IEP, programs or placement, discipline concerns, and/or transition.

Mediation often helps address communication and relationship issues that affect the working relationship of parents and educators.

Who may request mediation? When can you ask for it?

The student's parents, legal guardian, educational surrogate parent, adult student (18 years or older), the school district or public agency or an attorney or advocate representing any of these people may request mediation.

Mediation may be requested at any time a parent or an educator has an interest in resolving issues related to a child's special education. Mediation may also be requested before or at the same time as a due process hearing request.

What is the role of the mediator?

The mediator's role is to help the parents and educators use the process to understand each other's perspectives more fully and to consider and develop possible solutions to the dispute. The mediator does not make decisions. While the mediator remains neutral and impartial throughout the process, s/he may generate suggestions and alternatives for both parties to consider.

How are mediators selected and what happens after they are selected?

Parents or educators may request mediation by contacting the BSEA by telephone or in writing. The BSEA will provide the name and telephone number of the mediator assigned to their region. Parents or educators may also request a randomly assigned mediator by contacting the coordinator of mediation, at (781) 338-6443 or via mail, c/o BSEA, 350 Main St., Malden, MA 01248-5023.

The person requesting mediation initiates the process by contacting the mediator. The mediator will then call the other party to see if s/he is interested in participating.

After talking to the parents and school district, the mediator determines a mutually available date, time and location for mediation and communicates the determination to each party.

How soon is mediation scheduled?

Mediation is usually scheduled within 30 calendar days after parents and educators agree to mediate.

Who participates in the mediation session and may participants bring other persons to the mediation session?

Yes. Parents and/or educators may bring other persons who can assist the process (e.g. attorneys, advocates or people who know the student and his/her needs and/or district programs and staff). However, to keep the session informal and manageable, the number of additional persons should be kept to a minimum.

The participation of older students is welcomed and can be helpful in reaching agreements. Adult students must participate unless a guardian or other representative attends in their place.

If there is a disagreement about who will participate, the mediator will work with the parties to decide how the matter will be resolved.

It is important to be informed about your rights. While you are not required to bring an advocate and/or an attorney to the mediation session, it may be helpful to consult with one as you prepare for mediation. Also, sometimes advocates and/or attorneys can be helpful in assisting parties in developing solutions and options during the mediation.

How long is a mediation meeting?

In general, mediation can take anywhere from 2-5 hours. Occasionally they may last as long as a full day. The mediator and the parties may decide to schedule more than one session, if needed.

What happens if an agreement is reached / not reached?

The mediator, with the help of the parties, puts the agreement in writing. The parties usually sign this agreement before the mediation session is concluded. The mediation agreement is not in force until it is signed by both the parent and a school representative.

All parties should receive a copy of the written agreement.

If the parties are unable to reach agreement, the participants may consider other dispute resolution options. In some cases, another mediation session may be scheduled if the mediator and the parties determine that progress may be achieved in another session.

If I am uncomfortable talking about my concerns in the joint session, can I ask for a private meeting with the mediator?

Yes. Mediators may hold private meetings or caucuses with the parties during mediation. Participants can ask for a caucus with the mediator at any time. A caucus may be used when people: (1) become upset about the mediation process; (2) experience frustration in response to comments or actions of others; (3) have personal feelings that affect their participation; or (4) want to share information or an idea for resolution privately.

Does mediation automatically delay or postpone a due process hearing?

No. Mediation generally occurs before a hearing and does not delay the hearing. Parties must seek a postponement of the hearing date from the hearing officer, in writing, if they wish to mediate but cannot schedule the mediation before the scheduled hearing date.

Are discussions in mediation confidential?

Yes. Under federal law, "discussions that occur during the mediation process shall be confidential and may not be used as evidence in any subsequent due process hearings or civil proceedings…"

Prior to the commencement of the mediation session, the mediator verbally advises the parties about mediation confidentiality. The mediator then asks the parties to sign an Agreement to Mediate Form, which includes information about confidentiality requirements for discussions held in mediation.

Mediation participants are expected to maintain the confidentiality of discussions in mediation by acknowledging and acting in accordance with the following:

  • The mediator and participants will not reveal to anyone, including a hearing officer or a judge, the content of any discussions, which take place in the mediation;
  • The parties and their attorneys will not call the mediator or anyone associated with the mediator as a witness in any legal proceeding concerning this dispute; and
  • The parties and their attorneys will not subpoena or demand any records, notes, or work products of the mediator in any legal proceeding concerning this dispute.
  • The only written record of the mediation discussions is the signed mediation agreement, which is generally attached to and amends the IEP.

Who are the mediators and how can I find out more about mediation?

All BSEA Mediators are trained and skilled in mediation and knowledgeable about Special Education laws & Regulations. Mediators do not have personal or professional interests that would conflict with their objectivity in the mediations.

For more information about mediation, contact the BSEA Coordinator of Mediation at (781) 338-6443. In accordance with the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) Amendments of 1997, the BSEA will provide a qualified and impartial mediator for you. The BSEA will provide you with the name and telephone number of the regional mediator or, upon request, a randomly assigned mediator.

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